Hi, I’m Melissa Abernathy, homebirth midwife. I’m a mom to 4 kids and a Louisville native. I like to dabble in the arts of homesteading and feel connected to my Appalachian ancestors when I’m baking bread, washing dishes, and canning fruits and vegetables. Our family loves eating meals with others and it seems like we always have someone over! I’m an oldest sister and daughter and my friends say you can tell. Late spring is my favorite season and you will find me at the pool most summer days. I spend a lot of time outside and love hiking with my kids. I’m honored you would consider me to be a part of your journey!
Why I became a midwife:
After I got married and had my first child, I realized how underprepared I had been for pregnancy, labor, and postpartum. I attended some friends’ births to serve and support them and realized I had a passion for birth. I continued attending births, and a few years after that, I learned what a birth doula was and started attending births more professionally.
After serving women for years as a doula, I decided to become a midwife. The more births I attended the more I hated watching women be mistreated, coerced, or pressured into decisions for their families. I loved serving women in birth and couldn’t imagine leaving the birth space. It is sacred and inspiring to watch a woman powerfully transform into a mother. I went back to school to become a midwife so that I could offer women the respect & autonomy they deserved in their birth and life.
What is midwifery care?
The midwifery model of care sits on the foundation of pregnancy, labor, and birth being a life event instead of a medical emergency. Midwives provide personalized prenatal, labor, and postpartum care, focusing on the unique family in front of them, not a set of policies and regulations. Often, appointments last up to an hour or more, as the midwife and family develop a strong relationship together. The midwifery model has been shown to lead to lower rates of cesarean birth, reduced interventions, higher satisfaction, and excellent outcomes for low-risk pregnancies when compared to more medicalized models.
My birth philosophy is grounded in relationship, approachability, and autonomy. I believe parents deserve comprehensive, unbiased information to make decisions that feel right for their family. My approach is non-interventive and supportive, informed by my years of experience as a